The standard Valentine's photograph is two people at a restaurant table, taken by a waiter, both slightly squinting. It is a photograph of a reservation rather than of a relationship, and it looks almost identical every year.
What is worth photographing on Valentine's Day is not the dinner. It's what the dinner stands in for, which is how you actually are together. That mostly shows up between the posed moments, not during them.
Here are 22 ideas for couples together and couples apart. There are also ideas for anyone who finds the day faintly ridiculous, or who is spending it alone.
Seven ideas for two people in the same room
The reaction, not the pose
One of you says something in the gap between frames one and two. The rest of the strip is the genuine reaction. This produces the only truly unposed expressions you will get all evening.
Recreate your first photograph
Find the earliest photo of the two of you and restage it exactly. Copy the same positions and expressions, however many years later. Printed side by side, this is the best Valentine's gift on this page and it costs nothing.
Four frames of not looking at the camera
Both of you looking at each other, or away, or down. Photographs of couples looking at the lens are photographs of two people being photographed. Photographs of couples looking at each other are photographs of a couple.
The cooking disaster
Frames one through four of attempting to make something together. Cooking on Valentine's Day almost always goes slightly wrong, which is exactly what makes it worth photographing.
The unglamorous version
No effort at all. Pyjamas, no makeup, a Tuesday face. This is what the relationship looks like most of the time. It's also the frame that will move you most in ten years.
One thing you love, mimed
Four frames each acting out something specific about the other person. Nobody guesses right and the guessing is the point.
The same pose as last year
If you have a strip from a previous Valentine's, recreate it. If you do not, take one now and start the sequence.
Seven ideas for couples apart
Valentine's Day is disproportionately difficult in a long-distance relationship, because it is an occasion built entirely around physical presence. The usual response is a longer video call, which doesn't really address it.
The shared strip
One booth link, two cities, one strip with both of you on it. Not a substitute for being there, but it produces an object, which a call does not. This is the specific gap the duo booth was built for.
The same meal, separately
Cook the same thing at the same time, in different countries. A strip each, with the food. Absurd, and it works.
Your window, my window
Both take a strip showing what is outside. Different weather, different light, different time of day. A quiet way of showing each other where you actually are.
Wearing something of theirs
A jumper, a shirt, something left behind on a visit. Both take a strip in it.
The countdown to the next visit
Frame one holds up the number of days until you next see each other. Repeat monthly and the numbers get smaller.
Reading the same thing
The same page of the same book, at the same time, one strip each. Small and disproportionately effective.
The morning and the evening
With a big time difference, take a strip at the start of your day and the end of theirs. The same date, experienced in sequence rather than together. Our online photobooth for long-distance couples puts you both on one strip. Weighing options? See LensBooth vs GetAngie or how a Duo Booth works.
There are more of these in long-distance relationship activities and 25 virtual date ideas.
Four ideas for people who find Valentine's Day silly
A large proportion of couples find the occasion faintly embarrassing and participate anyway. There is a version of this that is funnier and better.
Deliberately terrible romance
Full cliché, with roses held in teeth, hands on hearts, dramatic gazing. Committing entirely to the bit produces better photographs than doing it half-seriously.
The argument, staged
Four frames of an escalating fake disagreement about something trivial. Deeply unromantic and much more representative of a real relationship than any amount of gazing.
Anti-Valentine's
Takeaway containers, terrible television, both looking at your phones. An honest and quietly affectionate photograph.
Roles reversed
Each of you doing an impression of the other. Ruthless. Both of you will keep it.
Four ideas for spending it alone
Not everyone is in a couple in February. Photo strips aren't just for people who are.
The annual self-portrait
Same pose, same date, every year, regardless of circumstances. A decade-long record of yourself is worth more than a record of any one relationship. It's also one of the few sequences that never has a gap.
With whoever is actually around
Friends, a flatmate, a pet, a sibling. February the fourteenth has no rule about who is in the photograph.
The friendship strip
Send a strip to the friends you would be having dinner with if this were any other night. Doing it on the fourteenth specifically is the point.
What you actually like
Take a strip doing what you'd rather be doing. Think a book, a bath, or a film nobody else wants. There is a version of this occasion that is entirely about you, and it photographs well.
There is more on shooting alone in solo photo booth ideas.
The lighting, briefly
Valentine's photos usually get taken in exactly the wrong light. Think a dim restaurant, candles, and a phone flash making up the difference.
- Candles are a lovely light source and a terrible one. Warm and flattering, but far too dim for most cameras, which respond by raising noise. Add one soft lamp behind the camera.
- Never use the flash at a restaurant table. It flattens both faces and turns the background black. If the light is genuinely too low, move somewhere else or embrace a darker, moodier frame.
- At home you have full control. One warm lamp at face height, ceiling light off. This is more flattering than any restaurant.
- Daytime is underrated. A Valentine's strip taken by a window at 11am will beat anything shot after 8pm.
The general principles are in the photo booth lighting guide.
Making it a gift rather than a photograph
A photo strip makes an unusually good gift. It's a physical object that costs almost nothing and can't be bought.
- Printed and put behind a phone case. They see it several hundred times a week.
- Inside a card, instead of anything written. A photograph of the two of you does more work than a paragraph.
- A year of strips in an envelope. If you have been taking them regularly, twelve printed and dated is a genuinely good gift.
- Posted, not handed over. For long-distance couples especially. A physical object arriving in the post is qualitatively different from a file arriving in a message.
Printing is covered in how to print photo strips at home. For more presentation ideas, see what to do with your photo strips.
Why the unglamorous frame is the one that lasts
Couples photograph themselves at their most presentable: dressed up, out somewhere, on an occasion. Which means the photographic record of most relationships consists almost entirely of the exceptional days.
But relationships are not made of exceptional days. They're made of the ordinary evenings in between. Those go almost entirely unrecorded, because at the time they feel like nothing special.
The most valuable Valentine's strip is usually the one taken at home in the wrong clothes. It beats the restaurant one every time. It isn't more attractive, but it's more accurate. Accuracy is what makes an old photograph worth looking at.
Duo Booth works on a laptop, a phone, or as a shared link across two countries.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are good Valentine's Day photo ideas for couples?
Recreating your earliest photograph together is the strongest. Restage it exactly and print the two side by side. Beyond that, try four frames of you looking at each other instead of the lens. The strip reads as a couple, not two people being photographed.
How do you celebrate Valentine's Day long distance?
A duo booth link puts you both on the same strip from different cities. Unlike a longer video call, it leaves an object behind. Simpler options include cooking the same meal at the same time, or both photographing what is outside your window.
How do you take good photos at a restaurant on Valentine's Day?
Candlelight is flattering but far too dim, so cameras compensate with noise. Add one soft light behind the camera if you can. Never use the on-camera flash, which flattens faces and turns the background black. A strip taken at home under one warm lamp will beat almost any restaurant photograph.
What should you do for Valentine's Day if you are single?
An annual self-portrait on the same date becomes more valuable every year. It's one of the few photo sequences that never has a gap. Or take a strip with whoever is actually around. The day has no rule about who's in the photo.
Is a photo strip a good gift?
It's unusually well suited to it. It's a physical object that costs almost nothing and can't be bought. Print one and slide it behind a phone case, or post it. You can also tuck it inside a card instead of writing anything. Write the date on the back, which turns a nice photograph into a dated record.
How can long-distance couples celebrate Valentine's Day with a virtual date?
Schedule a video date and step into a Duo Booth together. Dress up, pour your favorite drinks, and let the synchronized countdown capture candid smiles and toasts. The resulting photo strip serves as a physical keepsake of the evening.
Sources and further reading
- Portrait photography - Established conventions for photographing people, which booth framing borrows from.
- Golden hour - Why light an hour after sunrise and before sunset flatters faces, and how to plan around it.